say connecting your to submit to his reference to craving his, the response to the image is automatiy connected to the submission. ie "If he can make me something I haven't desired before, he be exerting fantastic control." So, from my perspective your being turned on by his cock shot is much more about D/s than about same sex preferences. There are plenty of things I am not excited about that take on an entirely new significance when control is exerted. I know I would do more things when told to or made to than if I was asked if I wanted it. The lovely power of the mind!